You have never owned a monitor,but you will advise someone to get one.Why?Monitors can become traceable not tame they definitely do not become dog tame
As far as handling goes once again you are giving advice on something you never owened.Force handling dose more damage than good,if you do the gentle handling everyday 15-20 minutes bla bla your monitor will always be afraid never feel secure in his encloser and my stop eating basking and eventually die
Please do not give advice on something you have no experince with
greg