I was planning to get a mojave or albino next, but had a change of heart and decided to get a spider... I just think it would be a better visual compared to my others, and there's so much you can do with them morph-wise. Plus, I keep hearing they have great personalities! A little worried about the wobble thing, but I'll ask any breeder about that before purchasing.

So here's my question... I already have a baby male pastel & two normal females (one yearling and one adult proven breeder). Considering what I have to work with already, do you think I should get a male or female spider? I'm planning to get a hatchling, both due to pricing and wanting to raise it myself. My breeding plan is to eventually make some bumblebees, and hopefully killer bees & other combo-morphs one day. A female spider could pair with Toby, but not for a few years - whereas a male could breed with my normal next year (or the following), producing spiders/norms until I have a female pastel for him. So which gender makes more sense, and would help me to reach my goals more quickly? Any thoughts would be appreciated!

P.S. Can somebody post pictures of what they consider a "good looking" spider? I'm still new to this, and having trouble knowing what to look for... I know it's mostly personal preference, but they ALL look pretty to me, LOL.