I understand how you feel. It is hard to wonder what happened to your baby after it leaves your hands. Especially when you KNOW it should have been delivered by x. I usually tell those who buy from me. "I offer a live arrival garentee, so it is very important to le me know all is ok when you get them. If I have not heard from you 3 hours after you get the package then the live arrival garentee is void." I try not to be pissy about it but I feel if the person getting my baby isn't willing to work with me then my hands are tied.