I need help...

[SGExotics]

Okay, so heres how the story goes... My sister is a little 6th grader... Totally innocent little girl, has friends in her grade who are also very innocent... And theres this girl "Dominique" in a grade above her.... I know everyone around here, and who they really are, and this girl "Dominique" is one of those girls who is up to nothing but trouble.. She's the girl nobody in her grade likes, b/c she is very desperate and whoreish for the lack of a better word... She started hanging out with my sister out of nowhere and i dont like this.. Younger kids look up to older kids, and want to be like them, and Dominique isnt the girl i want my sister being ANYTHING like! Now my sister is Going To Dominiques house EVERYDAY! And has been trying to act all big and tough, and is trying to be someone she's not... This Little Girl Dominique, is really doing something mentally to my sister, and my sister is like BRAINWASHED, by her.. If this girl was a boy i would have no problem going and having a "little talk" with him after they get out of school... But Surprisingly The Thing is a Girl! So i cant have a "little talk" with it... So what do you say i do? I've tried telling my sister that Dominique is unliked b/c she's up to nothing but bad stuff, and that she'll make you like her, but my sister Just DOESNT LISTEN! Im really starting to get P.O.'ed by this, and i always have to be in control of a situation, but this is the first time im not... Its rediculous...

[kris62901]

tell ur sister she has herpes lol

[SGExotics]

tell ur sister she has herpes lol

I tried that one... lol

[kris62901]

lmao sure ur sisters smart enough to do anything stupid so just give her advice like u were doing and worse comes to worse tell ur parents

[SGExotics]

lmao sure ur sisters smart enough to do anything stupid so just give her advice like u were doing and worse comes to worse tell ur parents

Yea, i've told my mom over and over, but my mom has this crazy idea, "This is all part of growing for a girl".. I dont think she gets it...

[tonkatoyman]

I have raised two. Both belong to this forum. I do not know your unique situation however, if you have parents at home they need to know the situation. Trust me, this is not ratting out your sister. You would rather have her mad now than when she looks at you after finding out she is prego and saying why didn't you stop me. Love sometimes means we have to do the unpopular thing, because it's the right thing to do.

[SGExotics]

I have raised two. Both belong to this forum. I do not know your unique situation however, if you have parents at home they need to know the situation. Trust me, this is not ratting out your sister. You would rather have her mad now than when she looks at you after finding out she is prego and saying why didn't you stop me. Love sometimes means we have to do the unpopular thing, because it's the right thing to do.

Oh yeah.. My parents are well aware of the situation.. They are the first ppl i go to when this stuff happens.. But my mom always thinks im over exaggerating... Maybe i am, but all i know is i dont want my sister hanging out with this girl.. Shes just one of those girls you sense is nothing but bad news... My mom, already talked to the girls mom, but i dont trust most kids around heres parents... They let their kids do whatever they want... My mom is really strict and protective over my sister, b/c as i said, she is just a little girl.. But she doesnt get to see what goes on when my sisters at "dominiques" house.. Im gonna have a few of my girl friends (friends that are girls) go talk to this kid, and tell her to find some friends her own age... nd not to brainwash younger kids into liking her...

[2kdime]

You need to keep on your parents about this. The fact your rents aren't listening has to be tough. I know ALL about that ordeal.

Maybe even have a talk with Dominique's parents.

If this were MY little sister, I'd be fighting till the death to protect her.

Hopefully it's just a phase.

[tonkatoyman]

Oh yeah.. My parents are well aware of the situation.. They are the first ppl i go to when this stuff happens.. But my mom always thinks im over exaggerating... Maybe i am, but all i know is i dont want my sister hanging out with this girl.. Shes just one of those girls you sense is nothing but bad news... My mom, already talked to the girls mom, but i dont trust most kids around heres parents... They let their kids do whatever they want... My mom is really strict and protective over my sister, b/c as i said, she is just a little girl.. But she doesnt get to see what goes on when my sisters at "dominiques" house.. Im gonna have a few of my girl friends (friends that are girls) go talk to this kid, and tell her to find some friends her own age... nd not to brainwash younger kids into liking her...

Sorry i was distracted for a moment. This really heavily depends on your relationship with sis. If mom will not stop her from seeing the older girl, you might sit down with her and explain how much you love her and carefully without condemnation explain how you have observed the changes in her because of her friendship with "D". Then point out girls you know your age like "D" and explain this is what "D" is headed toward. Then ask Is this where you want to be. Also I must mention your lifestyle will effect your credibility with her. If you hang with wild girls etc. Your word will carry little weight.

[SGExotics]

You need to keep on your parents about this. The fact your rents aren't listening has to be tough. I know ALL about that ordeal.

Maybe even have a talk with Dominique's parents.

If this were MY little sister, I'd be fighting till the death to protect her.

Hopefully it's just a phase.

Yea, i'll have no problem talking to her parents.. And i have my way with words (if you remember from when i first came here)...