To the left just a bit is another opinion on this....stuff.

It comes up from time to time on all forums. Several have mentioned it in this thread. It's part of community growth.

What the staff does with this situation, and it's not unique either now or here, is what determines whether a site lives or dies.

Other than me, and I'm not really, no one is perfect.

Pat, who's a good guy with a good brain, even if it is in the jar more often than not, has an opinion about staff. To him, it's valid. Staff, or those who have posted an opinion, differ with him.

But, unless I've missed something, he's still here, still welcome here, still a member of this community. I can see his point, understand how he arrived there, I just don't happen to agree with him THIS time. Uh oh, maybe we're not friends anymore. (yeah, some of this thread is that stupid)

Guys, as much as it's real, it's not real life, it isn't life or death.

Both ashley and her boyfriend were asking for what they got.

Teased and questioned with barbed humor.

Yes, wounded unto death by it, the both of them were.

That's why they kept coming back.

Let's talk about fair for a minute here.

Some of you keep throwing out that this is the fairest site on the net. WHO has said that? I don't see any BPnet bumper stickers making this claim. I have yet to see cotton covered rubber melons proclaiming that the fairest of them all is BPnet. It's not on anyone's signature that I've seen.

So, where is this statement coming from?

I'll say this, BPnet is one of THE fairest. Don't know about #1 for all around equality, but they're in the top few.

What is WRONG WITH THAT? That's pretty damn good, to be at the top, even really close to it is fine.

So, complain, explain, disdain, refrain and sustain but, before you go slamming yourself in the ass with a door, consider this; why are you here?

No one has claimed perfection. In fact, I've seen the exact opposite.

If no one has claimed a thing is to be found here, then those of you pissing and moaning about not finding what isn't here really need to have another look at your goal and see if you're on the road to its acquisition or caught in a cul-de-sac, swirling endlessly and for no good reason.