Here you are...

[icygirl]

I find it amazing that people really think they have the right to bash a site ON the site, and then think they should be allowed to continue bashing it, without any consequances.

This is NOT a right. This is a privately owned site, and techinally the site owner(or his designated moderators) can boot ANYONE off the site at ANY time for ANY reason. Rules or TOS notwithstanding.

There you go. From what I've seen this site is not a democracy as far as the TOS and staff opinions go...

Not saying whether that's good or bad, but we all signed a contract (TOS) when we joined the site. I think the OP was trying to argue about the following...

3. No Hate Speak. This includes, but is not limited to: cursing; threats of violence; racial, religious, or sexual slurs; personal attacks; bear-baiting; and speech intended to cause or further a "flame war" or personal vendetta. This includes vindictive use of the Reputation System. Ultimately, it will be up to the staff (the mods and ultimately the admins) to determine if any given post or thread has crossed these lines.

...when it clearly is not up for debate. OP says Robin was bear-baiting, Judy says she wasn't. Judy wins. End of story. YOU agreed to it when you signed up for the site!