Lol..I guess you havnt been to the forums I have. So many of them, and not all reptile related, where you basically have to walk (type) on eggshells, or its an insta-banned.

And you know what I meant when I stressed that it is free for all of us to participate in. If you think it is such an unfair place, why not just enjoy your time at the other forums if you arent enjoying it here. You know very well that no matter what anyone says or shows you, you wont say it is fair. There is possibly no way to give you solid proof of that anyways. Again..it is another opinionated conversation. What they think is fair, you may not, what you think is fair, they may not. It will never get solved. The beauty about the internet, is that there are TONS of forums out there to enjoy. If you find that you do not enjoy one, pack up and leave it, even for a little while if you have to. I know that is what I do. No use stressing over an internet forum ( been there, done that).