Bruce,
I've already commented once - but the overwhelming outpouring of love to you and Jer makes me so proud of this community. Know this - we love and care for you - and we will do whatever we can to help you through this process. I know that each one of us wishes that we were there in person to help you, but please know that we are all with you in spirit!
It sounds like once you've had the chance to get settled again, and grieve your losses, that when you're ready, there are many people who are willing to help you re-build your collection (myself included). We could certainly use the help of anyone who can process CITES paperwork to get animals from the States to you - a collection point that we can send out animals to and then get them shipped to you.
In the meantime, please let us know what you need - emotionally or financially. We love you!