My two fires which are the youngest/smallest bp's I have still dont care for me. All the advice given above is perfect, give him time and all will be good. Persistance is the key, my wife and I have been married 8 years and she will still strike at me when I do something wrong or not hand over my money fast enough, I usually just refill her drink, give her the remote, hand her a hundred and come back a week later...works everytime!!