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Congrats on the birth of your son dude!
I hope you and your girl are able to work it out. Trust me, with a child now involved, it's going to be a long difficult road ahead but it's SO worth it. My bf (solidsnaker) and I did not plan or expect to have our son when we did, we were both kinda young and had only been dating/living together for 2 1/2 months! (we were friends for a couple months before that but still!) anyway, 5 years later and a ton of crap later, we're still together and much happier at this point in our lives! there were times were we thought about just giving up on the relationship but realized our love for each other was strong and worth fighting for. Oh and FYI, patching up a relationship may be hard for the first couple months if your gf has any postpartum depression...I did and boy i thought for sure me and my bf wouldn't make it through but we did...
gosh i sound like a "dr. phil" lol anywho, i'll shut up now and i wish you the best of luck! ~~sending good vibes and luv to you guys~~
Feel free to send any PMs if you have any questions on how we dealt with Postpartum depression. It's a rough, rough road and the more you know, the better it'll be for you and your family!
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