I am an ICU nurse. I deal with "quality of life" issues on a daily basis. I witness family members struggle with life and death decisions regarding their incapacitated loved ones...their parents, their siblings, and their children. That last demographic undoubtedly provokes a pain I cannot begin to fathom.
Those who know me, especially my family, understand that I consider my pets my children. I have had every animal you can imagine as a pet in my adult life. If I didn't feel that I would be able to shoulder both the emotional and financial responsibilities of pet ownership, I would hesitate to continue adding to the family roster. No matter the species, my husband and I feel our animals enrich our lives and we will always do anything within our power to ensure their health and happiness.
I have always been saddened when I hear of a breeder (most notably dogs) who so readily sell an animal that has been "retired" from breeding or showing. I never really understood how a family member could outlive his or her usefulness and just be sent away like that.
I feel as much affection for my three snakes as I do my two Pomeranians. They are all followed by a vet from the moment I bring them home. I took them to raise and will do whatever it takes to do so properly, such as dip into my savings account, sell something, give up something I really don't need (do I really NEED to eat out or have every movie channel known to mankind???). And when quality of life becomes the main issue (regardless of financial burden), I will weigh all possible outcomes and ultimately do what is best for my animal.
Forgive me if I ranted nonsensically, for I am exhausted from a long day at work, but the topic is one that is dear to my heart in both my professional and personal lives.
Robbin
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