Quote Originally Posted by anatess View Post
Obviously, I didn't know anything about Greys, especially one without feathers, cannot even perch yet, and had to be fed with a syringe. You think my Grey is better off dead? I've had him for 9 years, have no clue what sex he is, and I can tell you, after owning my bird for a while, I am probably as knowledgeable about these things as you, if not more so. He is healthy - I got vet certs to prove it - and very well adjusted to me, although, he has certain people he just doesn't like - my husband included.
Trust me, I'm glad your grey is doing well and that you love him/her! If I was of the opinion that all birds in captivity should be dead I wouldn't be here... Id be out campaigning for PETA. I didn't mean to insinuate that anyone who does not know the sex of their bird is irresponsible, but any breeder/ store selling a large bird should have the genetic work done. Also be grateful your husband accepts your bird for who he/she is. Its not an uncommon story for someone to dump a bird because it didn't like their mate. My amazon, well my wife's really, has a bit of dislike for me and I know that's just how they are. The reality is that while there are people out there who can and should own parrots, the majority of people who make impulse buys should not. I'll give you the point that he may have taken the grey home and taken great care of it, but the majority of birds bought this way end up in rescues.