Which should i get?

[JeffJ]

hmm boa constrictor....
i sould of mentioned i have 2 kids 6 & 8 and a newborn, and two +90lb dogs

are boas as docile as ball pythons? id want it to get along with my kids

its not going to eat your kids or dogs.

they are mild tempered. bring them up right and you will have no issues with it.