Stressing about when to ask the gf to get hitched is a biggie for me. She'll start applying for med school in the summer, so unless she gets into the U of Minnesota, there will be a big move. Then I'll probably dip into my savings to help her pay for med school because I know her parents can't afford it. And of course these savings are pretty much 100% invested, so those are hurting right now. I'm just holding on to everything and waiting, it's just scary to see big companies go down the tubes. On top of all that, I don't have a job. Luckily I have the best parents in the world and some other $ I've saved up that get my bills paid on time every month, but I hate relying on them, and feel bad about it.