I don't understand how bad things always happen to good people...first as i posted here a bit ago one of my best friends in college tried to commit suicide (he's doing fine now, getting help and support from his friends)...and i also just recentley found out that my best friend from home, his dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer...stage 4. I am so baffled and upset by this i saw him but a few months ago and he was fine, now he's in a hospital bed hooked up to tubes, can't eat by himself...my best friend is a mess, i'm really worried about him, i talked to his mom and she's a very strong lady but she just broke down, they don't think he'll make it past a year...this is devastating because that family has been through a lot with me i've known them since 4th grade and they're like my second family...they helped me cope with my parents divorce, my mom's cancer...among a few things...and i just feel like a lot of bad things are happening to the people i care about the most. We're all praying and i'm catholic but it really would take a miracle to save this great man, that family has helped so many people...just a great rounded family. Please keep him in your prayers, he's supposed to start chemo on the 19th, but it might now be possible because of the weight loss he's experienced about two months ago he was 185, today he is 130lbs. Life is so Sh***y sometimes, but i guess things happen for a reason