Just like with anything though it all depends on the circumstances. Certain kids work well with certain snakes at certain times. Mikey knows that he must be calm to hold Buddy. The older kids know that they can't use their snakes (Emi and Severus) as fashion accessories or that sort of silliness. As long as the kids remember to respect their snakes and ours for the lovely creatures they are, then everyone's happy around here.