You are trying to approach an illogical problem with a logical solution. We all have fears. Most people are more afraid of speaking in public than they are of death. Sure, it doesn't make sense but that's the way fear works. And more important to your situation, everyone deals with their fears differently. I am afraid of heights, water, and snakes. So I got my pilots license, became a white water raft guide, and bought a snake.
Your mom doesn't sound like the type of person who will be swayed by logic or your power point presentation, (although I think you may have a future in business)!!! If I were you I would focus on her heart rather than her head. Get her a little gift!!! Do the dishes for her!!! Then sit down with her and tell her that you understand and respect her fear of snakes but that this is something you feel quite strongly about, let her know how much this means to you. She will probably still say no but she will respect your approach and it may bring you one step closer.
Good luck sweetie.
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