well we had the bachlor party on saturday and im still feeling the effects, 5 gallons of jungle juice will do that to you. i had a blast at my party and she did at hers. i want to know ( being i only have 4 days to back out LOL, JP), i have been with her for almost 4 years and we have lived together for 3 of those, what changes? will i say i do and all of a sudden she freak out and become some controling phyco? did anything change with the relationship that any of you had? not having second thoughts just want to know what to look forward to.