Yes, this is a question for everyone, though I'm a female posting this (so, i really, really want to hear women's suggestions!).

My boyfriend and I are stumped. We don't know what to wear to our friends' wedding. It isn't until May 19th, but we like to know in advance so we don't have to stress a day or two before.

It is a step-above casual, but not extremely elegant type wedding. I really like dresses, fancy shirts, skirts and casual jeans. I'm not sure if that information will help you ladies to help me, but I thought I'd throw it in there. I also wear make-up, but only in the form of eye shadow, eye liner and mascara. So, any outfit suggestions, if you could also help me with make-up ideas, that'd be very appreciated, too. Shoes, too. I'm not used to dressing up for occassions like this. My wardrobe consists of mostly black clothing, and I'd rather not wear that to this wedding, so I'm desperately seeking ideas.

My boyfriend is pretty much your typical guy. Jeans and a t-shirt and he's set. Any ideas for him are greatly appreciated, too!

Thanks in advance! Hopefully someone can offer up some help. We're totally clueless when it comes to special occassions, unfortunately.