My bp is about 6months old and I have a lil problem. I know to grab her near the tail but what do I do when her tail is in front of her tail? It's like it's saying "Grab it I dare you." And I value my fingers. A lot. It's in a 30 gallon tank, two hides, eats either on tuesday or wed. I've had her for exactly a month. I wanna hold her as often as possible except during digestion. I held it the 2nd week after I got it and thats it. It's cage is in my bedroom and it eats every time. So if I just reach in and attempt to grab the WHOLE body will there be a bite or will it retract it's head? This is nerve racking for me because "the guy at the pet store" told my wife to carry it in her purse, etc. from time to time to get it used to being handled often.