I just received 2 costal carpets and need your advice on the sexes as the person does not no and the sizes are off..lol..

Snake one is 9.75 feet and probes 8 on each side, male??

Snake two is 6 feet and probes 3 on the left and 2.5 on the right..Female??

Just seems like the larger one is huge for a costal?? Any opinions??