It's all my fault and I take full responsibility for not keeping a close enough eye on humidity. I feel terrible so if you need to yell at me, I understand, but be gentle?

My baby ball python, Tonks, had a terrible shed yesterday (it's her second shed since I got her, the first went fine but I was watching her humidity more closely that time). She got it all off the bulk of her body, but had some left on her head and tail when I went to bed last night. I gave her a short soak and made sure her enclosure is plenty humid today, and she's gotten the shed off her tail and is still working on getting it off her head, but it's mostly just shredding instead of coming off. I'm thinking I may need to help her, if only to make sure she gets her eyecaps off.

I've watched videos and am confident I can do it with my sister's help (she's a vet tech and an experienced reptile keeper), but what we're not sure of is how long to let Tonks try to do it herself before we step in. Should we do it sooner rather than later, or give her a few days before messing with her?