Thank you!
I'd rather be a helicopter Snarent than oblivious. Much worse things, yes.
However, I am probably also cognizant that I saved Yafe's life because I did intervene. That's emotional, feeling I saved him to a large extent, true or not. However, intervening may not help Behira, or change anything, or make it so things need to be changed, and it may just run its course.
BTW - If you didn't see, I edited my post above to include her last year of sheds.