Please Help, Me and My Baby Ball are Desperate

[traveling_classicist]

I’ve been debating on whether or not to post on this forum because the community intimidates me a little. I’ve used this forum to research my snake’s issues and even used some of the tips and tricks I’ve found. However, I’m just not getting the responses from my baby that I’ve hoped for so I thought it would be better to submit our specific case instead.


This is going to be long but I know the more information you all have the better you can help us. Thank you so much ahead of time for reading all of this.


First, my history: I have cared for a ball python in the past but she was an adult (8 years old) and a good feeder and I never had any real issues with her. She belonged to my school and I looked after her during breaks and the summer for several years. So I have experience with a ball python, set up, feeding regimen, etc.


Fast forward now, in mid March I got a baby ball python from Petco. I really hope I don’t get any shame for this. When I posted about my baby on other sites, I was ridiculed and degraded for buying from a pet store. I’m not going to justify myself further than: when I saw her in her tank and she slithered towards me all cute with her lovely red eyes, I just fell in love and that was it.


I could see there was something “wrong” with her from the moment I saw her. She was soooo skinny. I could see her spine and her neck was so very thin. I thought she was just a hatchling at first but after questioning the employees, they told me she was 5 months old. She had some stuck shed on her neck. Other than a dirty water bowl, I saw nothing else wrong with her tank at the store (no mites or anything). Over the course of about two weeks, I was in and out of Petco asking for all the info about her they could give me, which to my shock, was not much. They even lied to me about several things including her feeding habits. After sifting through the garbage employees there, I got the truth. She hadn’t eaten for four weeks and her feeding had been sporadic before that.


They would not let me have her feeding log because of “company policy” but here are the highlights:
She arrived to them in late November weighing 105g (they assumed she was around 6 weeks old but I don’t have a hatch date for her)
She started off eating a f/t hopper once a week
She refused for two weeks and they lowered her to fuzzies
She ate a couple times on fuzzies but refused several times and was lowered to pinkies
She ate a couple times on pinkies (normally 2 or 3 in a sitting)
She refused for 4 consecutive weeks up until the day I purchased her
Her weight a few days before I got her was 58g… A huge loss that the employees said was “natural”.


I purchased her anyways. Again, please don’t shame me. I’ve had enough of that. I’m here for help and if you’re serious about helping me, I’d greatly appreciate it if you read all the info I give here. I apologize for it being so long.


Her name is Pythia. She is an albino.
I got her new tank all set up:
20L Tank covered on three sides with dark, foresty wallpaper
Aspen substrate
Basking area (heated by overhead light) avg: 90-93 degrees
Hot side (heated by undertank pad) avg: 86-88 degrees
Cool side avg: 75-78 degrees
Ambient temp: ~83-86 degrees
(Temps taken with one of those laser thermometers not the cheapy pet store dials)
Humidity: between 50-60% (she has a hollowed rock with sphagnum moss in it under the lamp to provide extra humidity if needed during shed)
Two small hides (a half log pressed against back wall of tank and a hollow rock with sphagnum moss)
Lots of plastic plants creating additional hiding spots
Water bowl with enough room to soak
Branch to bask on


Her tank is in my bedroom which has no traffic during the day since I’m at work and not much when I’m at home either other than me.


I left her alone in the tank for three days and offered a f/t fuzzy. I was afraid of how small she was to wait the full suggested week to leave her be so I went ahead and tried to feed her. She refused. Fearing that she might die if she didn’t eat, I assisted her (I did not force feed her). I watched several videos online on how to do it. She took the fuzzy just fine. She didn’t even attempt to spit it out. Whilst opening her mouth, I noticed something stuck in her upper lip. It looked like a piece of her old substrate. I tried to dislodge it but couldn’t and didn’t want to harass her more than I already was.


The next day I got an appt with my vet. He removed the substrate from her mouth; he thought it had probably been in there for quite some time and it was preventing her from flicking her tongue. He checked her belly and found no bumps or obstructions and it was nice and soft. He weighed her and found that she was 69g so I assume Petco just did not weigh her properly because I did not give her a 9g fuzzy. He diagnosed her with a small case of dermatitis and gave me a cream to put on it. He suggested assist feeding 2-3 pinkies every 3-4 days for two weeks to get her weight up. He seemed very concerned about her weight as I was.


I assist fed her just as instructed. I do attempt to have her eat naturally if she wants but she just isn’t interested. She took every pinky just fine, in fact she seemed to slam them down. I noticed that after three feedings (including the first fuzzy) she had not pooed. I gave her a soak in a warm bath and she released her bowels. The stuck shed also came free.


About a week in to this regimen, she shed. A perfect shed, all in one piece. After the initial poo she went just fine afterwards without any additional soaking or anything. The two weeks passed. She looks like she’s gotten a little bigger. Unfortunately, I don’t yet have a scale to weigh her (still waiting on the order to arrive) so I can’t tell her actual weight. She has gotten rounder and doesn’t look quite as triangle shaped. Her spine doesn’t stick out nearly as much but is still visible. Her skin doesn’t wrinkle anymore either.


I attempted to let her feed naturally in her tank with a f/t pinky. I dangled it in front of her hide with some tongs. She seemed sort of interested for a moment and then nothing. I left the pinky in the tank with her overnight and she did not take it. I called the vet and told him what was happening. He instructed me to drop her feeding to two pinkies once a week, instead of twice a week. He wanted to rule out parasites so he got me some dewormer to administer to her. I gave her the first dose last Tuesday (4/9). The instructions state to administer the first dose then wait a week to give the second.


She pooed last Monday and after a few days, I noticed she was very active. Because of her skin condition, I have to handle her daily to put on her cream but it is never for very long (maybe 5 minutes max) and I’ve had her out for longer only a couple of times. The dermatitis has all but disappeared but after her shed, a few more little dots popped up so I’ve been treating them as the vet instructed.


I hoped the activity may have meant she was getting hungry. Saturday night (4/13) was feeding night. I thawed a pinky in warm water and dangled it in front of her hide again. This time, I got a huge feeding response for Pythia (lots of tongue flicking, lots of interest, following its movements). She was so alert and I thought this would be the one but after several minutes of doing the “zombie dance” with this pinky, she didn’t strike. So I left it in her tank, turned off the lights and left her alone for the night with the pinky. In the morning, the pinky was still there.


I waited a few days to give her another chance before assisting so she went about 10 days between feeding. I dangled the pinky into her tank and to my surprise, she struck at it! Because I was not prepared for her striking it (because she never has), I jerked and dropped the pinky. I felt awful because she would have nailed that thing and I messed her up. After that she just wasn’t as interested. I assisted her and she ate one pinky. I also administered her other dose of dewormer. Now, I’m just going to leave her alone for the next week and then see how feeding goes next time.


I’m at a loss, though. I’ve tried different things to get her to feed naturally before assist feeding her, like braining the pinkies (ew, messy). I make sure they’re nice and warm for her. I give her time to eat naturally if she wants (normally around 30-45 minutes) before I decide to assist her. I always feed her at night. I tried boopin her on the nose lightly with the pinky several times to get her to strike but no dice. Now she appears to be afraid of the pinkies and jerks away from them. I just don’t know what else to do. It breaks my heart every time I have to assist her because obviously she doesn’t care to be manhandled like that.
And before anyone gets upset with me for assisting her, the vet said my baby was probably days from death from starvation and our main concern is getting her weight up. Even though we’ve dropped her feeding schedule down to once a week, he still wants me to assist her if she refuses. I really hate doing it but I know I have to to get her weight up.


She is the sweetest snake ever and clearly is showing quite a bit of patience and trust with me after all the harassment I’ve been dealing to her (if I were her I definitely would have bitten me by now). She likes to explore her tank every now and then. She uses the hides equally but has been hanging out on the cool side the last few days. Every now and then she’ll burrow into the aspen shavings. I noticed that behavior more when she was about to shed. She hasn’t really done it since. She drinks normally from what I can tell and she doesn’t appear to be dehydrated. I’ve never noticed any problems with her mouth and believe me, I’ve seen the inside more than I want to. Breathing seems normal so I don’t think she has a respiratory infection and I think the vet would have caught that since he was so thorough with her exam.


The vet is very against live feeding and really wants me to continue with the f/t. I fed live rats to my other snake after she had a long feeding strike so I could go either way but I’m inclined to trust the vet’s opinion.


After all this information, if you’re still reading, you’re a saint. I just want thoughts at this point. Tips, tricks, whatever you can offer as help for us. I just want her to be healthy and happy, she must have been so miserable in that store.