I don't think venomous snakes are any MORE beautiful & appealing than harmless ones, but they're also not "less than"; you get a feeling of mutual respect- when
you work with them in the right frame of mind they do seem to know us & realize we are safe room-mates. The ones I've known...I didn't enjoy them "because"
they were hots but rather "in spite of it". And there's still some ways to interact with them safely, but for sure, they don't belong in most households.