I was in a similar position as you with my female but I have a feeling she wasn’t well started when I got her. Follow Deborah’s advice to a T and I highly recommend scenting pinkies with frog if you go the scenting route. My girl went from I think 9-10g to 6 and probably wouldn’t have made it another month. Now she’s around 140. I scented with frog for a few feedings, decreasing the scent with every feeding. I think she was on unscented after three or four feedings. Good luck.