My sweet girl Lilith (Lily for short) is only about 3 months. I've had her for four days and absolutely do not plan to handle her until she's been here eight to ten days since her next meal is due Sunday and I want her food to settle before I begin handling her. The breeder said she handled her quite regularly, but I would like to know how often I should handle her to begin with such as once a day for a few minutes, every other day, and so on. I don't want to stress her, but I want her to be accustomed to it to where she is "tame" for lack of a better word although I know they can never truly be tame.