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    When is enough, enough? One more addition?

    I am contemplating getting "one more snake."

    I feel I am getting close to or at my limit, but still want another one.

    I am ambivalent.

    My local reptile shop owner/breeder, had a litter of Western Hognose snakes.

    There is a male I have my eye on, and I admit, even have a name picked out. He's a red phase, so nothing crazy, but he's adorable and friendly.

    He's already had about ten meals and is about 7G. He's happily eating F/T small pinkies 2X weekly.

    I would put him in a 21"X12"X12" that is escape proof and acrylic and that I already have (with thermostat and heating elements also).

    I would either put him in my office to keep me company (I work from home), or would put him downstairs, where the other reptiles are, but separate in the reptile area. Yes, he would be quarantined.

    Here's my dilemma.

    I have 8 reptiles in 7 tanks currently. I have a full 5 level Boaphile tank setup and it's perfect. I have a bunch of cool critters, and frankly, really couldn't ask for better reptiles.

    Yet, this guy interests me.

    My question is, when does it stop? I had already cut myself off after Solana, and Katie was on board with that.

    Part of me feels that if I scratch this itch, there will be another, and another, and another, and I can't scratch all of them. I can't have every species and every cool critter I see.

    My time and health are limited and right now, I really enjoy this hobby; it's not a job and I like that. Also, for those who read my posts, I am very passionate about this hobby and my animals. It's important that I continue to be and don't burn myself out, which is inevitable if I keep collecting.

    I feel like I am betraying myself and, to a some extent, Katie, if I get another animal. For what's worth, Katie met him today and held him. I am in no way being secretive about this.

    However, I still want him. If I choose to go that route, I will be devoted to him, just like my other animals (canine and reptilian). I don't know how to go 50% with animals. I give the best care or I don't take on the animal.

    I am writing out loud here, but would be interested in feedback from others.

    When did you know it was enough? How do you stop scratching the itch? Maybe you can't?

    Ultimately, this is my decision and Katie's decision, but any feedback is welcomed.

    I love this community and appreciate any and all opinions.

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