I've been reading several different caresheets on Corn Snakes and the few things I'm confused about is temperature, humidity, and handling.
A large majority of the care sheets I've read say that the hot side should be 85 degrees and cool side around 75 degrees. I found one care sheet that said the hotspot should be 90-95 degrees.

So what should the hot side/ hot spot be?

second, none of the care sheets say what the humidity % should be! They just say to keep humidity "low". I would like specifics.

lastly, how do you handle/tame a baby corn snake? They're so small and quick, I'd be afraid to hurt it if I grabbed it! I read you should start by just putting your hand in the tank and letting the snake explore your hand. But how do you pick it up??

thanks for any advice/info!