I have noticed a trend going on in our community, I am not going to name names, but I am going to say, those of you who are involved know who you are, and those who are not know who is who. Lately, I have noticed on several occassions, that there are a few of our members who share things going on in thier lives with us.. I am going to say this-- we may not always agree with what someone decides or does with thier $, but we have no right to judge. We have no right, none of us. There are times in all of our lives we must exercise the advice many of us have heard from our parents or grand parents, -- that is : if you have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all. I know we like to help eachother out, but there comes a point when we must all realize that the things we say or how we say it are only the beginning of flaming or are bear baiting if thats what you want to call it. We are here to be CONSTRUCTIVE.. being anything else otherwise, is not right and not fair to others and we might as well just keep our mouths shut. I am not trying to be harsh, but I am being direct about the problem I see going on lately. Bottom line, it needs to stop. Please.