Oh I can't wait for my snake to get big enough to coil up on my lap. He's still only about 2 feet long and still needs to gain some weight. But I want him to get bigger so he can wander around the apartment and we don't have to worry about him hiding somewhere tiny where we can't find him.
Do you handle all of them often? Or just the ones who are used to you? Seems like the defensive ones may still not be used to being handled or in your presence.