Is it just me...

[wilomn]

Whoah, this thread made me way angrier than it should have...why on earth is everyone jumping on her age? She's an adult, and I don't think anyone asked for your opinions...?

OP, I think it's an awesome idea, but have to agree that it probably wouldn't be the sensible thing- BUT- it really depends on the cat. For instance, I once had a wonderful, laid-back people-pleasing cat who rode around on people's shoulders, and this would have been right up his alley.

Also, congrats on your engagement! ^_^ Don't let the fuddie-duddies get to you. Last time I checked, this was a forum geared toward animal advice, and not relationship advice. So, yeah. They can take a hike.

So, after contradicting yourself and giving relationship advice you give a kick in the teeth to everyone else who did not agree with you or the OP and THEN you go get all butthurt about it and wonder why?

I'm more of the opinion that too many of you expect too much to be allowed to play on the internet without parental supervision.

THAT'S why I suggested you may be interested in hiking yourself, you seem to need some alone time to ponder your double standard and tender tushy.