i have a elderly neighbor 2 houses down... she had a stroke before she moved here...she has no family accept the man that lives with her...he isnt as old as her he is maybe in his 50s shes more like 70..but when she first moved here i guess he was in the hospital..and she asked me for food and a little help to make her something to eat..and i did...and she also asked for dog food..she had 2 dogs at the time time...and i gave her food for them...she gave me this hole story about how her family isnt here...and she has no help and she cant get help from the government...and she had no electricity so it was extremly hot in her house...its a crappy little 1 bedroom house...that use to be used as a druggy hang out before she moved there...but i fell for it...and i gave her a ride...and i gave her food..and i got my bfs mother to help her out by getting a fan from church for her...and we got some donations for food...than about a week later this man appears at her house...and he tells me a compltely different story about how this is his wife...and they moved from the other place cause the landlord said this was a better house..and blah blah blah..and than asked me if i had pills i wantted to sale..this realy ticked me off so i left..and i startted askin the other neighbors about if they had been helping her out...turns out she hit all of us up for dog food..rides..and food for herself and this guy...one of them even told me they gave him a ride to the grocery store so he could get food for them and he walked out with beer instead....so i dont help her anymore...and i try not to talk to her...or him..but i feel so bad..she walks with a limp you can obviously tell she has problems walking...and she walks every were our grocery store is 2 miles away and our bread store is like 4 miles away and i see her walkin there all the time...and this guy is always getting rides every were...its ridiculous..but i dont trust her..and i have 2 kids to worry about..we dont live in the best neighborhood..and she always ask me questions about if certain houses have people living in them and when these people work..so i feel she is up to something with him....iv herd he was a theif....oh and about 2 weeks ago i gave her some cereal..and bread...and than last week the man comes to my house and tells me he cant eat the cereal because i didnt give them any milk...the nerve of him..but am i wrong not to give her rides? like right now i just came home and they both were walking down the street about 3 miles away in the cold rain..sorry for the rant...i feel guilty...but i dont want to be a sucker and i dont like being used.. i struggle to make ends meet for my family as it is...so what little i have left to blow..i dont want to spend on someone whos not deserving of it