Can someone please give me a simple order of events in the change of the female ball python during her preparation for laying? I know the changes (bowl hugging, glow, shed, bumpy, bloated, tail suck, etc) but can not remember the order of the events nor the timing. I have a female that looked bloated, then bumpy and in shed and has been visiting with a male. I am trying to figure out which stage she could be in. Thanks in advance.