My husband said something similar before we started dating. He had sworn off women after a divorce and a near miss to just focus on his kiddos and building his business. He was my bossand we worked together quite closely for about 4 months before he admitted defeat and asked me to dinner. We will have been happily married for 9 years this September and I love him more today than I did then. We still work together every day too. Nobody thought our marriage would be successful because of our age difference (I'm now 28 and he's 51) but we proved them wrong.
Don't give up, but my best advise is to not look for her. It will just happen when you least expect it
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Thanks! He's a 2011 pinstripe and my baby. These pics are of him as a little guy and show his pattern, or lack thereof, better.![]()