This is what worried me from the beginning. She had been eating one hopper every 7 days since I got her. The male grew and is fat from that, she is not. I'm feeding him full grown mice now. But I can't see giving her a full grown mouse yet.
The last time she ate on her own was Wednesday 4/25. She killed a hopper, had it wrapped up for a loooooooooooooooong time (over an hour), then swallowed it. Then regurged it. She was cold to the touch and wet and clammy. that's the same day she started doing the odd thing while on a towel with me, where her head was unsteady and falling backwards.