I've done extensive reading, stalked forums, got my ball python Basil everything he/she wanted(need to take it to the vet to find out), temperature on hot side 90, cool side 80, humidity 40-60%. Waited at least one week before touching, fed it once already. ( didn't even think twice before nomin on his food) I've done EVERYTHING yet he's SO SHY. Whenever I pick him up he stays slightly coiled the longest I've held him is 5 minutes but I worry I'm stressing it out when he starts breathing a little more deeply, feel bad for him and put him back in his tank. I've had him for 10 days now and I don't know what else to do to get him to be a little less shy I want him to at least move a little when he's on my hand. Please help me