I just got my BP a little over a week ago and I know that the breeder was feeding on Mondays. So she hasn't eaten in a week and a half. She is 7 months old.

The breeder was feeding live. She has eaten very well for him. Now long story short I am feeding F/T and this keeps my wife happy and I am more comfortable with the idea of my snake being as safe as possible.

Well I thawed my rat of what I can guess is appropriately sized from what I can tell this is all new to me. The rat is as big as the thickest part of her. The body of the rat isn't as bug as it's head though. It seems close. I thawed it in the fridge overnight and took it out tonight and used a blowdryer on hot and high to heat it up. No takers... she just stayed in her hide. So I thought I would try her in a feeding tub just in case. I noticed her eyes are bluish-grey but I thought i would try again and after repeatedly heating the rat (paying special attention to the head) I kept grabbing it with the tongs by the back of the neck and danced it around a little at different speeds. All my girl did was lick it a couple times and nuzzled it like it was a teddy bear and kept exploring! She had no interest in it. I gave up after 15-20 minutes and now this whole nerv-racking ordeal has drawn to a close with the rat on top of her hide in her cage and me posting on here as yet another victim of a non feeding ball python. Grrrr.

So I am partly venting my frustration and trying to ease my patience. My Temps are band on 90-92 on the hot side and 80-82 on cool. The humidity is 58-60%. I guess I need to bump it up to 70% because she is starting to shed.

What do I do now? She is starting to shed so maybe she just can't see it? Did I do something wrong when offering. I didn't think it was going to be this difficult. Logic says it is a warm rat that is moving (although unnaturally) around = food.

Well any help is appreciated. Tonight was a big let down and I was really hoping that her first meal would go well.