So I'm in this situation where I agreed to breed my female bp with a local small time breeder and also my male with his females. Well I took the two of them over to his house over a month ago. Since then my male has locked with several of his females, and his male has locked with my female. Now our relationship has somewhat soured and I'm wanting to retrieve my BP's from his house. Last week my female didn't appear gravid as another note. A mutual friend is telling me that I don't have a right to my BP's until they lay eggs since its my first season breeding despite me having the appropriate conditions and equipment. They are my BP's and as agreed I would still split the clutch even if they were at my house instead. Any suggestions or thoughts on how to handle this situation. To be honest I wish things were going well between us. Sorry for the long read too.