To answer the op's questions.... I have no interest in caramels, so I couldn't say about that. However, I love everything spider. I think spiders with high white sides are beautiful, I LOVE my bumblebee. And yes, I knew about it before we got her. I had watched several videos on you tube, with varying degrees of wobble. Yes, some of the extreme cases cam be sad too watch, but I don't think there are as many that are that extreme. Our bumblebee had a slight wobble when we first got her. You can't really even tell anymore. I think her nerves brought it out when she got here, new enclosure stressed her out. Her head would bobble a bit. The first two feedings she missed the rat on her first strike, due to head bobbing from excitement/stress, but nailed it on second strike. Since then, we never see her wobble, and she is a great eater. I think she may have it mild, where stress or feed response triggered it? Anywhoo, I would not avoid anything spider, I love them. Just maybe try to find a less extreme animal.