So after waffling on buying a normal several times, I was just skimming through fauna classifieds and found a spider that I LOVED but the guy wouldn't email or text me back, so I was skimming kingsnake and found another one within my price range and I'm sending payment on him in just a little bit. The only thing I worry about is he's a bit fiesty according to the seller and this will be my first BP so how can I work on getting him used to being handled without getting bit? I know to leave him alone for the first week and to start slow after that, but how do you guys recommend picking him up without completely violating him? I'll post pics soon, and thanks for any suggestions!