I've been trying to get my aunt to let me have one for years (she's terrified of spiders)

but I asked her about a week ago for one and she said "we'll see" which is a major improvement since all I've ever heard was

"ARE YOU CRAZY?"

I've been doing a lot of research on them, but I've heard two different sides

some say it's a good beginner tarantula
while I've seen one that said it's recommended for more experienced keepers


if not, what do you recommend?