Wedding plans to be exact

And I'm excited! My SO up until a few hours ago, wanted the courthouse. We've been arguing all weekend about this, and have come to an agreement for OUR dream wedding, not his, not mine, ours

So far we've managed to make a not so happy groom's momma, she's all for our plan of a small, private beach ceremony of just close family. Parents, grandparents and siblings, and my niece and nephew (who may or may not be flower girl and ring-bearer...) However, she doesn't like that we're not having a "real" reception. We're doing a small, private, same guests, family dinner, with our wedding cake. Possibly dances, but that depends on the resturant. Get this, yesterday she told me "Don't let anyone tell you or Chris (SO) how you have to have your wedding, its YOUR day"

I'm still excited, I went to the circus with my parents & niece and nephew to help them watch them, and was literally about to pass out... Then I started with more wedding plans, and I'm now wide awake