Okay so I just bought my first BP a little over two weeks ago, and I'm already saving up for a second one lol. I have one male pastel already, and now I'm saving for a male piedball! I first saw them on the NERD website and fell in love, they're so awesome looking. The problem though is getting my husband to say yes. He's getting better with Dante (my pastel) but he still makes me take him out of the tank and when he wants to hold him. Yesterday, Dante "yawned" while my husband was holding him and he got a little freaked thinking he was going to get bit. I explained it was normal and not a sign of aggresion, but it's been a slow process. So do you guys have any tips for getting my hubby to be a little more okay with snakes?