I am waiting patiently to buy a female spider... I am really picky on which ones I like/don't like but I'm wondering if there is a standard of what makes a good/bad/average spider bp? For example, like the NERD pastels (lemon pastels) are high end and would be considered very nice pastels because they have high yellow + blushings etc.- and I think most of the BP community would agree on what a "10" pastel is... But when it comes to spiders, they can vary from being very light, high white, reduced pattern, to very dark low white and lots of pattern (and everything in between). I personally like the light, high white- but I am wondering what factors make a spider an ideal spider (pattern/color wise- not attributed to the wobble). Is there a universal consensus on what people would consider a "10" spider? Thanks