1) She is under fed like CRAZY 1 yr old and only 2ft?? I have three 1 yr olds pushing 3 ft easy and they are thick.
Feed 1 small rat every 5 days until it comes back around to normal size then move up to 7 days.
2) The more you show fear the more they show aggression. My fire was the same way. And don't keep grabbing it's head, b/c I would bite you too if you did it all the time.
3) Keep taking it out.