Where to start!

I'll begin with Nolan, one of my patternless females. For about 6 weeks, I have not witnessed Nolan eating. Of course that doesn't mean she's not eating since I usually leave mealworms or supers in a dish overnight. Well I noticed about two weeks ago that she was getting visually thinner and losing color. Around this same time, my other female Lily got knocked up.

I had decided to separate Nolan from Lily. Now I can monitor exactly what's going into her. I tried feeding her mealworms, superworms, roaches and pinkys. She wouldn't take anything. I thought she was just being stubborn. Her last shed was when I separated her, two weeks ago. She is drinking water, the only thing I see when she defecates is urate.

So, I need to get her to poo so I can get a fecal done. Tuesday I started giving Nolan CGD through a syringe. I read that it was an acceptable form of diet for force-feeding a leopard gecko. Note that I'm "force-feeding" Nolan to acquire a fecal. Here are before/after pics. There's about a 6-week span between pics so I hope you can understand my concern, even though she's not quite on deaths doorstep.

Before, patternless on the right...


This morning...



Now on to the "kiss". Apparently, Nolan doesn't like being man-handled



So Lily, the normal pictured above, she layed her eggs yesterday.


They didn't look good to me. I don't know if it was the lay box medium or what. They were very pliable, they didn't resemble anything like what I have seen in any videos online.

Even after a night in the incubator, they were still the same, squishy & dented. My reptibator is set to 82 F and it was at 83% humidity this morning. They also had no smell this morning.

Can these be characteristics of bad eggs?

Also, I have read online that some breeders re-introduce their female to the male a couple days after laying eggs. Anyone here actually do that?

Thanks for looking at my long winded post