I have a juvenile about 13 inches or more. Iv had her for a week, tried to give her a first feed and she dident take it. I just held onto it infront of her with long tweezers. So i know to try again in another week but is it better to just leave it on the substrate, leave it for 1 hr and go back and check on it, rather that holding it? Maybe she will be more comfortable that way first few times? Any help is appreciated!!