Everyone else has already given you sound advice. I'd just be regurgitating what's already been said. But, I will wish you luck. And do what's best for you. I was in an abusive realtionship, and I didn't heed the red flags....I consider myself fortunate that I left the relationship when I did...it could have been a whole lot worse! Regardless of whether it's a clean break or not, you need to look out for yourself...it's not worth the risk.