I have to agree with the overall mood. He sounds like a controller, while my husband doesnt care for reptiles at all, and he even has the excuse that I didnt own any when we got together, <I was dead broke, but thats another story> I have four bp's now. He drove with me the four hour round trip to a recent expo that he was bored to tears at, AND was going to allow me to buy a dinker female Id spotted if she hadnt been removed for sale.
Sharing passions isnt always a requirement, but an understanding/support of them at the very least is.

I also fail to see where someone without a degree gets to pyscho analyze you after only a few months and tell you, your hobby is a crutch.

As stated earlier you are an attractive girl, move up and move on. You can do WAY better.